San Francisco Travel Guide

Hi guys! I'm SO excited to recap our girls weekend in San Francisco, share all of our photos and memories and give some tips for your potential SF travel. Be sure to bookmark for future reference!

So who did I go with, and how did this whole thing happen?!

Well, Ruthie Ridley was my first blogger friend ever. We met on Instagram in December 2015 and in real life December 2016! Ruthie and I were living parallel lives, both being involved in worship ministries (she leads worship at Jesus Culture Sacramento).

I met Angelle Marix on Instagram early 2016 and met up in real life around Thanksgiving that year. She lives close to my Mawmaw in the New Orleans area, so it's easier for us to hang out somewhat regularly!

I've said it once and I'll say it again...I'm amazed at how God uses Instagram to bring new friends into my world. Never could I have ever imagined I'd make some of my best friends online. We all talk on an almost daily basis, but Ruthie and Angelle hadn't met in person yet even though they'd been Insta-friends for so long!

As you can imagine, we'd been dreaming of an adventure together for a long time and Alaska Airlines made it happen! Thanks to Alaska, we united in San Francisco for a girls' weekend getaway. They have SO many flight options to the West Coast (and we all know how much I love Cali :), so we couldn't pass it up! I flew in from Dallas, and Angelle from NOLA, so flying with Alaska just made the whole experience effortless. Dream come true!

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KIMPTON BUCHANAN HOTEL (Lower Pacific Heights/Japantown)

San Francisco is really spread out and everything we wanted to do was EVERYWHERE. It can be challenging to narrow in on where to stay and how to prioritize your days, because there are so many amazing places! Instead of organizing this post based on our order of funtivities, it's organized around neighborhoods, so hopefully you can reference this if you're looking to create your own SF itinerary!

We Uber-ed to several spots, but rented a car, which was what we used for transportation the majority of the time. Street parking is relatively easy around the city!

Ruthie has always been a big fan of Kimpton properties, but this was my first experience with them! Boutique hotels make for such a unique and eclectic experience. The Kimpton Buchanan just couldn't have been better.

Located where Japantown, the Fillmore and Pacific Heights intersect, Kimpton Buchanan is tucked away from the Union Square scene (about 10 minutes away) in what feels like an authentic local neighborhood. We packed our schedule full and it was the perfect place to come home to after a busy day.

Looking forward to staying with Kimpton again!

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SWEET MAPLE CAFE (Lower Pacific Heights)

Our hotel was within walking distance of Sweet Maple Cafe, one of the hottest breakfast spots in town! We arrived around 10:30am, and the line was literally out the door and around the block! Such a popular place, I recommend going early! But the wait was totally worth it. :) Glad we had our walk home to burn off some of those yummy calories!

Other things to do near Lower Pacific Heights: Painted Ladies, Salt & Straw, Conservatory of Flowers.

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AMPERSAND (Mission District)

We met up with Karina Santos (who is an absolute sweetheart) for photos in the Mission District! So many cute spots at every corner, including Ampersand. It feels like a hidden hole-in-the-wall treasure! Make your own floral arrangement, or ask one of the lovely florists to give you a hand. They were so chill to let us take a few photos and enjoy their space!

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Right around the corner from Ampersand were simply more cute spots to take photos with Karina!

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MEDIA NOCHE (Mission District)

Media Noche was one of my favorite eats! The best comfort Cuban food. Don't get me started on the plantain chips!!! If you're in the area, it's a must.

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Just down the street from Media Noche was this pink house, so I obviously couldn't resist... :)

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Other things to do close to the Mission District: Garden Creamery, Boba Guys, and Bernal Heights Park (which is south of this area)...gorgeous city views and home of the swing overlook. Insta-worthy, for sure!

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SCALA'S BISTRO (Union Square)

Scala's Bistro is located just off of the Powell Street cable car line, right in the buzz of Union Square. Our hotel was roughly 10 minutes away, so we just Uber-ed there to avoid parking fuss!

Parisian bistro vibe and Italian recipes, with the freshest California ingredients...it just doesn't get better than that! We shared several entrées and my favorite was the lemon ravioli...to die for! Dinner at Scala's was such a special experience! Highly recommend.

Other things to do near Union Square: Museum of Ice Cream, Neiman Marcus Rotunda, San Francisco Cable Car joyride, Maiden Lane, Boba Guys, Pressed Juicery.

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BAKER BEACH VS MARSHALL'S BEACH

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Remember that time we accidentally ended up at a nude beach? WHAT?! Ummm my literal worst nightmare! Let me explain...Baker Beach is always tagged in these cute Instagram photos as the beach with the Golden Gate Bridge in the background. Well, we got there and Baker Beach was PACKED! Lots of people, but the closer we got to the bridge, the less populated the area became and we started noticing some very naked men. NOTE TO SELF: always check Yelp. I will hopefully never make that rookie tourist mistake again!

Ends up, Baker Beach actually turns into Marshall's Beach, which is known as a nude beach. Yep. So if you go to Baker Beach, be aware...there's a 99.9% chance you'll run into a similar experience since the beaches are seamless, and Marshall's Beach makes more sense for touristy photos since it's less busy and closer to the bridge. Thanks to my non prescription sunglasses for being my innocent eye support...it was all a blur. 🤣 We got our pictures, got out of there as fast as possible, laughed till we cried and made an unforgettable memory!!!

Other things to do near the Golden Gate Bridge: Crissy Field is another view of the bridge, Lansend Lookout, Sutro Baths (see below), Cliff House (see below).

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WRECKING BALL COFFEE ROASTERS (Cow Hollow)

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Cutest coffee shop! Say no more.

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THE BUD STOP (Cow Hollow)

There are so many darling flower shops all over SF...I mean, three of them pictured in this post. LOL! And, there's another one right across the street from The Bud Stop called Le Bouquet Flower Shop. Both are adorable!

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Other things to do near Cow Hollow: Le Bouquet Flower Shop (right across the street from The Bud Stop), Palace of Fine Arts Theatre, Pressed Juicery, Lombard Street (famous crooked street with hairpin turns), Fisherman's Wharf, Ghirardelli Square.

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SUTRO BATHS @ CLIFF HOUSE

The Sutro Baths speak for themselves...breathtakingly beautiful!!!

CLIFF HOUSE

Cliff House is right by the Sutro Baths. We enjoyed dinner there after taking some photos at the Sutro Baths. I am such a sucker for sunsets and this dinner view is unreal! The upstairs restaurant is called The Cliff House Bistro and it's more of a casual vibe...they don't take reservations. The downstairs restaurant is a bit pricier and takes reservations.

Thanks for checking out my San Francisco Travel Guide! And thanks again to Alaska Airlines for making this trip possible. I can't wait to visit the city again and add to my list. Let me know if you have any favorite spots!

Jess xo

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HUJI OUTTAKES

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Back To School Capsule Wardrobe

I've been so inspired lately by the idea of a capsule wardrobe, and have coincidentally received several messages asking if I have tips for putting one together! A capsule wardrobe is basically a small group of versatile, essential clothing items that all work together to create many, many outfit options. Capsule wardrobes are becoming popular for many reasons including time, cost and space efficiency...especially great for those who live with small closet space available, or travel often! The idea also allows for intentionally investing in each individual piece since you're working with a smaller number of items. Maximized usage with a minimalist mindset.

Ok, great...so, I love the idea, but where do I start? I get overwhelmed when it comes to how, and I'm thinking you might find yourself in a similar place.

I decided to get my feet wet by putting together a capsule wardrobe with back to school in mind. I took 16 pieces and created 64 outfit combinations. Items range from $9.99 to $98. Instead of just saying, "Here are 16 pieces that will create 64 outfits," I decided to take a photo in all 64 outfits, because I'm a visual person and that's what I'd want to see if I were you. And yes, my knees are beet red in the pictures due to the Texas heat! LOL. :)

If you're considering creating a capsule wardrobe for back to school or fall in general, I hope this takes a LOT of the leg work out for you!

So here we go! I'll list out all 16 items, including a few alternate options, then the outfit photos are down below. Just keep in mind with alternate options that all tops need to work with all bottoms, all outer layers need to work with all bottoms, and all tops need to work with all outer layers.

1 - Crop Tee (similar ideas here, here, here, here, here)

2 - Plain Tee

3 - Graphic Tee (similar ideas here, here, here, here)

4 - Swing Top (similar ideas here, here, here, here, here)

5 - Plaid Top (similar ideas here, here, here)

6 - Swing Dress (similar ideas here, here, here)

7 - Stripe Cardigan (similar ideas here, here, here, here)

8 - Plain Cardigan (similar ideas here, here, here)

9 - Pullover Sweater - I bought this sweater in stores at H&M. The closest thing I could find online is this blue sweater. I'll keep my eyes peeled for the green one online, but until then, here's some similar options here, here, here, here, here!

10 - Denim Jacket - My denim jacket is from Old Navy in the 90's! This and this are both similar options.

11 - Skirt (similar ideas here, here, here)

12 - Midi dress

13 - Jeans - My mom and I both bought these jeans in the Nordstrom Anniversary sale...can't say enough good things!

14 - Joggers or Jersey Pants (similar options here, here, here, here)

15 - White Sneakers - I found these Prada sneakers at Nordstrom Rack last year! Found a few similar ideas here, here, here!

16 - Vans

Bonus: Baker Boy Hat

Do you have any capsule wardrobe tips?! Send them my way!

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Life + Health Update (Part 2)

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Hey guys! It’s been several months since my first life and health update (click here to read), so I figure it’s about time for some news…good news, at that! Keep scrolling for more. :)

I realize many people are facing life-threatening illnesses and by the grace of God, that’s not where I find myself. Perspective is key, and I’m constantly putting my circumstances into perspective. I have so much to be thankful for! Nevertheless, this has been a long and hard season in every way, especially physically, emotionally and financially.

It’s now been a 10-month journey and though I’m not fighting for my life, I am fighting for the quality of my life. It’s been a real battle for me—body, soul and spirit. I want to pass the test and learn everything God has for me to learn!

When we go through challenging seasons, the enemy would love for us to feel as though God is punishing us, or abandoning us…but the truth is, even though God doesn’t cause sickness or suffering, He will use difficulty for His glory to bring about His plans and purpose in our lives (Genesis 50:20, Romans 5:3-5, Romans 8:28). Even Jesus Himself learned obedience through the things He suffered (Hebrews 5:8). God is in control of this time and this season. It doesn’t look like what I would’ve wanted, but I truly believe that someday I’ll look back and see that this pitstop will have changed the trajectory of my life. Like I said in my last post, I believe what appears to be a setback in the natural is actually God pulling me back to launch me forward.

That’s all easy to say when the season is over, but I’m still walking it out. I’ve experienced many moments of feeling restless, frustrated, disappointed and lonely. But more recently my heart has turned toward deeper contentment, surrender and thankfulness. It’s a deliberate choice I make every day.

I believe that I turned a corner this past week. Like I said, I’m still walking it out, but this is the first time in my journey that I’ve seen significant improvement! I wouldn’t want to miss an opportunity to praise God for what He’s doing, so it’s important to share with you in faith that I’m just going to continue getting better and better! I’m believing this is the beginning of the end of this trying season, in Jesus’ name.

These 10 months have changed me. I’ve been learning how to strengthen myself more in the Lord…how to be more compassionate to the needs of others…how to trust more in the goodness of God even when the path isn’t clear…so many lessons I hope to share more about soon.

I feel as though I’m embarking on a brand new life in every way, shape and form—health, relationships, resources, church, work—it’s a clean slate. I couldn’t be more excited and expectant for what’s ahead!

Thanks so much for following my journey! Your love, support, encouragement and continued prayers mean everything to me! ❤

Top 5 Recent Reads - July

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Hey friends! Hope you're having a great week. :) I recently shared on my IG stories how I've always wanted to be an avid reader, but it doesn't come naturally. Work in progress! I signed up for Audible last year (Amazon's audio book company), which was a total game changer! It's perfect for getting dressed in the mornings and rides in the car. I've "read" so many books this way! It's encouraged me to sit down with a book in my hands, too...unplugging from the digital world has been 100% necessary to the season I'm in right now.

Below I'm sharing 5 recent reads that I highly recommend!

1. How's Your Soul? Why Everything That Matters Starts With The Inside You by Judah Smith

2. There Is More by Brian Houston

3. Unseen: The Gift Of Being Hidden In A World That Loves To Be Noticed by Sara Hagerty

4. Love Does by Bob Goff

5. Goliath Must Fall by Louie Giglio

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14 Amazon Finds For Your Beach Vacation

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Any other guilty Amazon Prime shoppers out there?! It's dangerously convenient...especially when you have an upcoming trip and time is running short. What a lifesaver not to have to run all over town to pick up those last minute essentials!

Keep scrolling to see my 14 Amazon essentials for your beach vacation! I personally have almost all of these items and brought them with me on my recent Cozumel trip (where these photos were taken).

1   Portable iPhone Charger - I was in desperate need for a handy dandy iPhone charger for this trip...my battery runs out like crazy! This one charges multiple phones/times before needing a recharge. My only complaint is it's a bit heavier than I expected! Other than that, 10/10.

2   Knock-Off Chacos - I know I don't seem like a Chaco girl (probably cause I'm not), but I surprisingly wanted a pair for summer hiking, rocky beaches, etc. These are Skechers, but they're significantly cheaper and SO comfy. I personally think they're cuter than a lot of Chaco-ish options too. :) I've seen them fluctuate from $28-48 on Amazon, so definitely watch for price drops! I also found them here.

3   This dress is in rotation every few days at the moment...definitely in my top 5 most worn items of the summer! And it's only $21.99 on Amazon Prime! It seriously doesn't get better than that. (For sizing reference, I'm 5'7" and wearing a medium.)

4   Beach Coverup - I bought this coverup last year and it is SO cute and SO cheap. "Salty hair, coconut oil, big waves, hot sun." The picture doesn't do it justice on Amazon at all, which is such a shame. Definitely a fun tee for the summer, whether you use it as a coverup or not! The fit is oversized. 

5   Elta MD Sunscreen - My current go-to sunscreen for my face, dermatologist approved. I wear it every day over my moisturizer, under my makeup. Great if your makeup doesn't have an SPF in it, or if you're going makeup free!

6   Alba Botanica Hawaiian Sunscreen - I mentioned this one in my recent Mexico Packing Checklist post. We found it in a 2-pack at Costco and fell in love with it while on this trip...it's reef safe and doesn't smell like sunscreen...AT ALL! (The only 2-pack I could find online is here.)

7   Palm Tree Kimono - I don't personally have this one, but have been eyeing it for a long time! I love kimonos for the summertime. They're so versatile, which is especially helpful if you're trying to pack light. Perfect coverup, cute with shorts and a tank, adorable over a sleeveless swing dress for dinner! Comes in lots of different pattern options.

8   Snorkel Set - Yes, I purchased a snorkel set for this trip! Cheaper than renting and so nice to have your own if your destination is a popular snorkeling/scuba diving area.

9   XXL Beach Bag - I guess this is such a mom move of me, but I always travel with a beach bag in the bottom of my suitcase if I'm anywhere close to a beach. It's always worth it! I don't have this particular one, but it meets all of my beach bag requirements. :)

10   Waterproof Case - Ugh, I just became a tourist. I will say I'm not responsible if your phone gets ruined because of this! Definitely test it out at home before you consider dunking it in the ocean. It made me so nervous, but my phone didn't get wet! Also nice for putting some cash or identification in if you don't want to bring your whole wallet to the beach.

11   Waterproof Camera Float - Ugh, not only am I a tourist...I'm a flashy tourist! I purchased this to attach to my waterproof case in the unlikely event that I dropped it...it floats! Can you tell I was nervous about this situation?

12   Swimsuit Dress - Modest and $30...say no more! Comes in lots of color/pattern options. Pictured in my recent Cozumel post if you want to see what it looks like on me!

13   Heart Sunglasses - Another item I've been eyeing! Another "can't beat" item...$10! Would be so cute for a few girlfriends to all purchase! Comes in various color options.

14   Travel Steamer - I never travel without a travel steamer! I don't have this particular one, but mine is currently sold out and I have a friend who has this one. I have a full-size steamer at home since so many girly clothes are a delicate fabric and ironing is just not an option. One of the best travel purchases I could ever recommend!

I might share more Amazon roundups if you guys enjoy this post, so definitely let me know your feedback!

Jess

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Mexico Packing Checklist + Travel Tips

Hi guys! Hope you're having a fabulous week. I'm currently visiting my Mawmaw in New Orleans! Met up with Angelle from Dashing Darlin' today which was oh so good for the soul...no complaints here. :)

I've been working on photos from my recent Cozumel trip and thought it'd be helpful to share a "Mexico Packing Checklist + Tips" blog! This was my first trip to Mexico, so I wasn't quite sure what to expect! I'm already dreaming of my next trip there, though...maybe Tulum? :) Here are a few things to pack if you're planning a trip across the border this summer. Keep in mind this was my first trip and we visited Cozumel...I'm no expert! It's definitely wise to do your own research about your specific destination!

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Passport. Won't get very far without this one! ;)

Sunscreen. I can't emphasize this enough! I found this Alba Botanical Sunscreen in a 2-pack at Costco and fell in love with it while on this trip...it's reef safe and doesn't smell like sunscreen...AT ALL! (The only 2-pack I could find online is here.) And I use this one on my face under my makeup every day.

Bug Spray. Think humid jungle vibes. I also brought lavender for bug bites, which really elevates the sting/itch.

Bathing Suits. I would recommend bringing more than one bathing suit! Since it's so humid, they don't always dry out overnight even if you leave them outside.

Cash. Of course you can always use ATMs, but I was surprised how many places did not accept credit cards. Even though it's really nice to have pesos on hand, most places do accept US dollars, so definitely bring plenty of cash. But only carry around as much as you need for the day! Leave the rest in a safe at your hotel.

No Frizz Humidity Shield. I just wasn't expecting Mexico to be SO HUMID! It's a very wet heat. So if your hair tends to frizz up in humid environments (whose doesn't?!), this stuff is awesome! Just spritz after styling and spraying your hair!

Other tips:

Tap water. Don't drink the tap water! It can cause problems with your digestive system or a case of the dreaded "Montezuma's Revenge!" Even brushing your teeth with it for us tourists can be a rough situation. Pro tip: buy jugs of water at the local grocery mart and order bottled water when you're out to eat!

Pick-pocketing. Whatever purse you bring, I would stay away from a backpack since it can easily be pick-pocketed! We met an American who's lived in Cozumel for several years now and she also recommended not carrying your purse on the side closest to cars if you're walking. People apparently slit purses and grab them as they drive by! Sounds crazy, but I took her precaution.

Valuables. Think twice about the valuables you bring with you! I didn't pack any jewelry I can't live without. If it's not essential, leave it at home!

Consider weather. Keep in mind that hurricane season is June-November. June-September is considered hot and humid. We heard December is the busiest time to go. We also heard April and October are really nice times to visit.

Travel advisories. It's always a good idea to scan the US Department of State's site to see about any travel advisories for international travel.

That's all I got! Happy travels. :) Comment below if you have any additional tips for travel to Mexico!

Much love,

Jess

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Father's Day | Dad's Favorite Fragrance Roundup

Father's Day is almost here and I thought it'd be fun to feature my dad, of course! If you know him, you respect him, admire him and love him. Fun fact: he wears black every day. It's rare he's not wearing black! That combined with his signature white hair...quite a sharp look if I do say so myself. I wore black in this post to honor the man himself! :)

He's sharing about his all time favorite men's colognes below, so keep scrolling for more!

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Jessica and I have a lot in common, including our love for dreaming about the future, creativity, worship, adventure, hitting golf balls at the driving range, baseball games and finding new fragrances. And speaking of fragrances, I’m excited Jess asked me to share about my favorite colognes for Father’s Day! I think it’s a great idea for a blog post and I hope it’s helpful whether you’re shopping for your dad, your significant other, or you’re a guy like me just interested in some new options.

Though I had a couple of cheap bottles of cologne when I was a teenager, I really haven’t enjoyed wearing cologne all that much until the last few years. I like to make careful choices and keep my collection small. My priorities when shopping—affordability, uniqueness and longevity. I tend to like fresh, citrus and woodsy fragrances, but nothing too spicy or heavy. To me, these are all-occasion fragrances. Appropriate for work/daytime, but also dinner and date nights. So here we go!

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1. John Varvatos Artisan. Described as a refreshing citrus explosion that develops into a spicy and floral blend followed by a masculine woody impression.

My absolute all-time favorite cologne is Artisan. This just feels really fresh to me. I haven’t smelled anything like it! It’s a very light fragrance so you can spray it on pretty heavily. If you’ve ever been to Walt Disney World, you’ve noticed that they try to capture all of your senses (including smell) when you walk into their nicer resort hotels. Disney’s Contemporary Resort is a great example! It has its own unique smell that you subconsciously associate with the resort, the feeling, the memories. There’s something about John Varvatos Artisan that reminds me of that smell. It’s not identical, but it’s in that family. So, every time I wear Artisan, I think about our amazing family times at WDW. The only complaint I have is that it just doesn’t last long enough, which is a common concern expressed about this particular cologne. But to me, it’s still worth the few hours it lasts.

Notes of sicilian clementine, tangelo, mandarin, thyme, marjoram, lavadin, North African orange tree blossom, Indian murraya, orange jasmine tree, ginger extracts, kephalis, georgywood, belambre, serenolide.

2. John Varvatos Artisan Pure. Described as crisp and woody citrus. This might actually be my new favorite! Jessica gave me a sample and I’m sold. It’s in the Artisan family, but it’s noticeably different…and I think it’s amazing. Since I just ran out of Artisan, my perfect world—if I had unlimited resources—would be to have both Artisan and Artisan Pure in my arsenal…but if I had to choose one over the other, I might choose Artisan Pure just for a change! I’ve found that Artisan Pure initially has a stronger concentration of fragrance than Artisan and it lasts longer. Maybe use a lighter spray to start with because of that. I haven’t found anything as unique as Artisan and Artisan Pure!

Notes of citrus groves, coffee tree flower, sun-warmed woods.

3. Mark Birley for Men. Described as a warm woody blend. This is a huge favorite of mine and it looks like it’s currently unavailable! Once again, I discovered it because Jessica gave me a sample. We’ve found it at one online store (here) but have never shopped there before. I’m including it in the list just in case you come across it somewhere and you’re interested. Jessica found this on sale for me a while back at Barneys New York online, so I grabbed it up! I use it sparingly because it’s more expensive. And I think you can easily put too much of it on because it’s a stronger concentrated fragrance. People might smell you coming! :) A light spray is all you need. I wore it yesterday and I really enjoy the smell. 

Notes of sandalwood, cedar, patchouli, musk, vetiver, carrot seeds, leather, lemon, bergamot, mandarin, violet and incense.

4. Insurrection II. Described as fruity, sweet, fresh, tropical, woody. There’s a well-known men’s cologne called Creed’s Aventus. I’ve never even gotten a test sample…there’s no point for me since it’s $300+ for just a 1.7 ounce bottle! It’s super expensive, but anything you read about Creed Aventus online says it’s awesome. But there’s a knockoff cologne of Aventus called Insurrection II. It’s roughly $20! A friend of mine who’s really into men’s colognes—he probably has dozens of fragrances—told me about Insurrection II. I really like it! Everyone says it’s very similar, but I can’t say how much it resembles Aventus. I’d say Insurrection II is probably more of a dinner/date night fragrance, but I wear it anytime.

Notes of cassis, bergamot, apple, pineapple, birch, jasmine, patchouli, oakmoss, musk, amber and vanilla.

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A few other options Jess wants to mention are Prada Luna Rossa, Le Labo Santal 33, YSL Y and YSL L’Homme. Her advice has always worked great for me…just sayin’!

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John Varvatos Artisan / John Varvatos Artisan Pure / Mark Birley for Men / Insurrection II / Prada Luna Rossa Sport / Le Labo Santal 33 / YSL Y / YSL L'Homme

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Happy Father's Day and happy shopping!

All the best,

Tim and Jessica

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Summer Shopping + Weekend Sales

Happy weekend, friends! I did a poll over on Instagram asking if you'd be interested in a Memorial Day sale post and the overwhelming response was YES! I included tons and tons of summer sale items, along with some picks that are not technically on sale, but are great prices. Everything included in this post will not last long, so definitely grab it up and return later if you think there's a chance you'll regret it. :) Keep scrolling and happy shopping!

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(If you see a spinning wheel, refresh your page. Use the arrows if you're viewing on mobile device...you definitely don't want to miss anything! :)

Blouse (currently 40% off--I'm wearing a small) / Pants (similar--35% off) / Prescription Glasses (code FLASH15 for 15% off) / Handbag (40% off) / Lipstick / Lip Gloss / Shoes (similar)

RETAILER SHOPPING CODES:

Coastal Eyewear - 15% off with code FLASH15

Express - no code needed for up to 50% off 

Henri Bendel - no code needed (discount applied at checkout)

J.Crew - 40% off with code GETAWAY

Macy's - 10%, 15% and 20% off select departments with code MEMDAY

Nordstrom - no code needed (discount applied at checkout)

Old Navy - no code needed

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RETAILER NOTES:

ASOS - If you're considering an ASOS swimsuit, I've heard they run small, but haven't ordered one myself to confirm! It's super easy to return items with them, so I sometimes buy two sizes and send one back if I'm unsure.

Pro tip: if you think you'll be shopping there often, you can sign up for 1 year of 2-day free shipping with $19 one time. Totally worth it!

NORDSTROM - You can return Nordstrom items to your local Nordstrom Rack store if that's more convenient.

CHICWISH & SHEIN - These items ship from Asia, so expect Forever 21-type quality and slow shipping (usually 1-2 weeks). Perfect shops for cheap trendy things, though!

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TOPS (if you see a spinning wheel at any category, refresh your page--contact me if you have any further trouble)

JUMPSUITS/ROMPERS

DRESSES

SHORTS

SHOES

HANDBAGS

SUMMER BAGS

SUNGLASSES

JEWELRY

SWIMSUITS

COVER-UPS

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I only promote products and brands that I love...all opinions are my own. ☆

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All the best,

Jess

Life + Health Update (Part 1)

☆ Special thanks to Tobi for sponsoring this post! ☆

Hey y’all! It’s taken me a long time to feel ready to write this. I’ve known in my heart that I want to share what I’ve been walking through, but I’ve been unsure about what to say and how to say it. Whether you attend Gateway Church and have been wondering where the girl on the piano is or you follow me online and haven’t seen me posting as often, this is for you. :) For those who have personally reached out, I can’t tell you how much it means to me! Anyway, there’s no way to possibly express how personal this post is! But, I’m choosing vulnerability because...

1) I believe that telling my God story is one of the most powerful things I can do in response to my circumstances, whether they’re hardships or wins. I’d rather share how God has already miraculously healed me, but I haven’t arrived at that destination yet! I’m sharing where I am in the journey because this pit stop is part of my story—it’s part of the bigger picture that only God can see.

Sharing the hardships makes the triumphs even more glorious. If I’m vulnerable enough to include other people in the journey, then we can celebrate together when I’m on the other side of this mountain! I’m a private person, but I want to be open with you guys and I don’t feel this season should be an exception.

2) I believe the real estate I’m claiming on the internet (blog and social media platforms) is meant to go so much deeper than the surface layer. Life’s challenges look different than a posed Starbucks cup and fresh manicure…I don’t even drink coffee and I’m cutting back on manis to save money! I don’t want this space to only be a highlight reel. Life’s not picture perfect. It’s me writing in my pajamas with a tension headache…pretty sure that wouldn’t get a lot of “likes,” but that’s real life!

Being a successful “influencer” does require excellence…high quality images, aesthetically pleasing vibes, styled shoots, negotiating with brands and the list goes on...I’m not knocking any of that. I’m a lover of all things artistic, creative and entrepreneurial. But it seems we can tend to undershare on social media by pretending everything’s fine or overshare by venting, but I’m committed to always try to walk the balance, being open and honest.

3) I believe in prayer. God’s teaching me so much about prayer right now, so I’ll likely write more about it soon, but the bottom line is...prayer changes things. I need prayer and I want to pray for you too! DM me on Instagram with prayer requests. You can count on my prayers.

4) I believe at least one person reading this is walking through a health challenge and needs to know they’re not alone! Be encouraged. If I’m writing this for one person, it’s most totally worth it.

Now that I’ve prefaced this with some values and context, let’s back up…(keep scrolling…)

☆ SHOP THE LOOK ☆

Floral Romper ($39! Romper pro tip: size up if you're tall! I'm 5'7" and ordered a large because it looked pretty short on the model) | Star Earrings ($7) | Necklace | Sandals (similar) | Sunglasses (similar) | Handbag (under $65 on sale!)

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I’ve always had an entrepreneurial spirit with a go-getter nature. Since my lemonade stand days as a kid, it feels like I’ve been working ever since—from collecting quarters for straight A’s to making jewelry, taking photos, selling art, playing music, etc. I’ve always valued creativity, responsibility and plain old hard work.

I began taking piano lessons at the age of 5. When I was 14, I started playing piano and music directing at Gateway. For those who aren’t familiar, music directing at Gateway means everything from preparing the worship band’s rehearsal and performance materials to running sound check to musically directing the team through live worship experiences under the leadership of the worship pastor. I talk into a secret mic during church services that only the audio, video, broadcast, lyric, lighting and worship teams can hear…it’s like air traffic control for worship leading! I help navigate changes on the fly and keep things running smoothly, hopefully taking weight off the worship pastor so they can fully focus on leading. All of that while playing piano! Anyway, I began homeschooling around the time my family came to Gateway, which offered flexibility to be more involved with church and creative endeavors. My role at Gateway grew into a full-time position and I’ve served there ever since.

Over the past few years, there were several red flag moments when I felt I needed to slow down, but continued to stay the course. A combination of symptoms intensified and by the fall of 2017, my doctor ordered me to stop everything! He said I needed to “rest, restore and recreate.”

Through lots of testing by doctors and specialists over the following months, we learned I’m having challenges with thyroid imbalances, adrenal fatigue, TMJ and a combination of other things.

Almost everything about my life has changed in the past 6 months! I have wiped my life’s slate clean, including resigning from my role at Gateway. I’m discovering a lot about how to take better care of myself…body, soul and spirit. I’m learning more about healthy eating, non-toxic products, better sleeping habits, how to wait on God (when I thought I was already waiting?), how to feel deeply, be a better friend…the list goes on.

The health challenges have caused me to slow down in a way I probably wouldn’t have otherwise. Similarly, I likely would’ve never considered stepping away from my role at Gateway, so I know God’s hand is at work. Though God didn’t cause these circumstances, He’s using them to lead and direct my path. And I believe what appears to be a setback in the natural is actually Him pulling me back to launch me forward. Wow, what an exciting thought!

So now what? I’m on a no pressure basis in every area of my life. I’m encouraged by some better days lately but am taking it one day at a time and focusing on my health and recovery…listening to my body…and trying my best to hear God’s voice. King David’s lyric “He makes me lie down in green pastures” (from Psalm 23) has taken on a whole new meaning! I am choosing joy every day in response to these circumstances. After all, God’s joy is my strength and I could use more of that in this season (Nehemiah 8:10). Every day, multiple times a day, I’m also reminding Him of the promises He’s declared over my life. I know He’s faithful to keep His word.

If you’ve made it this far, you’re truly committed! Thanks for walking with me on this journey! And please pray for me when you think about it.

Hope you enjoy the outfit details too. And special thanks to Tobi for sponsoring this post. They sent me a few other items including this low back swing dress and this off the shoulder dress. They have super duper amazing sales 24/7, so definitely check them out!

All the best,

Jessica